The Cabin Adventure Begins!!!!

Hey Friends! So it all begins....

Jameson and I have been needing some sacred space for years now.  We love our life on the road playing music and traveling but we have been feeling the need to have a place to call our home and to share with others.  We need to start repaying the years of hospitality shared with us.  

Our dear friend Parker lives on a magical piece of land just a few miles East of downtown Richmond.  On that land there is a little cabin which has been abandoned for probably 40 years.  
Fortunately, last year, someone began the cleansing process.  They moved out all the old furniture and swept the floor however, the cabin still needs a ton of love.  

Jameson and I have been working on the inside for a couple days now.  I have wiped down all the walls and fixtures with a sponge and bleach water (6 parts water 1 part bleach) to get off the mold and dust.  We cleaned the windows which is letting a lot more light into the space.

In the right corner of the photo above you can see a wooden box.  That is a built in bed frame.  Jameson just extended the bed frame so it would be a double instead of a single.  He used a hand saw and salvaged wood.

Right now the house does not have any electricity of plumbing so we are using candles to give some extra light.  Eventually we will run an extension chord to the main house and have a few LED bulbs burning.  We are trying to stay as energy efficient as possible and to really be aware of our consumption.  One day I hope to be totally off the grid, this is our practice.

We plan to carry water down from the main house.  We have a few containers and a Brita water filter.  The house is on well water, which is really exciting for me.  I took a sip yesterday and it was wonderful to not be able to taste the chlorine.  I look at the land and I see so much richness, all the minerals in the soil and water, perfect ingredients to grow nutritious food. 

The previous inhabitants left all sorts of thoughtful forest themed decorations like this pine cone and candle chandelier and these very 1950's curtains.   Some we will keep and others we will use in other ways.  

I'm going to try to keep this blog as a log of our journey.  Feel free to ask questions in the comments.  Hopefully I will have the time and where-with-all to document this process well.
Mica & Graham's Wedding

We came home from tour to help our friends Mica and Graham with their wedding.

It was a very DIY wedding and fortunately M & G have very talented and capable friends, willing to take on the challenge. We all worked together to make it a really special heart filled event.

Here is Mica, her sister and her out of town college friends making braided rope streamers out of old fabric.  It was bonding to sit around together and get to know each other while we worked. 

Mica and Graham were married at the Quaker Meeting House in Richmond, Virginia.  Jameson officiated the wedding.  It was a different kind of wedding.  M & G sat in rocking chairs and we all sat around them.  Jameson invited everyone to sit in silence and when they felt moved by the spirit to give a blessing to the couple that they speak briefly from the heart.  We all enjoyed the silence together, that moment where all our bodies had come together inspired by the love of our friends. So many blessings flowed from us to our dear ones.  Mica's sister started it off praising the couple and giving us all a good example of how to send a blessing.  She was followed by many others; friends, parents, grandparents. Some people told funny stories about the couple, others sent prayers of safety for their coming journey, and some more experienced couples gave personal wisdom about marriage. It was beautiful.  After about an hour of silence and blessings Mica and Graham exchanged rings (in silence) and kissed, indicating that they had agreed that they were married.
We gave a big cheer which felt rebellious and extra joy filled after all being quite for so long.

Then we partied!!!!
Half the wedding party went to the reception via bicycle birgade.
Jameson and I went ahead to the reception space to finish setting up.

The party was at LoveBomb a radical new art space in South Side RVA.

All we brought were candles, the rope braids, and a few extra tables and chairs.  The vibrant space already had so much character with it's enormous moveable stage and All the saints theater company's giant puppets. 

Eight bands played during the receptions.  We all danced and sang along.  It was like a modern day hoe-down.  It added a lot to the wedding to have so much live music.  In many ways it felt like a tribute to Greenwood manor, the house where Mica and Graham used to live where they hosted many musical gatherings though out the years.
Here's the lineup!

Andrew Ali and Josh Small

 Everyone brought alcohol to share

Graham's family provided the food-  Pig roast and traditional southern sides like deviled eggs, coleslaw, and pasta salad.  Here is the bride and groom getting down on some ribs while sharing some Hardywood beer.

 As a final touch to an awesome day, some very talented friends of the couple made this face cut out inspired by Mica and Graham's the next adventure, a bicycle trip up to Maine! Have a wonderful pilgrimage you two.  Love you! Stay safe and come back to us.